It’s no surprise that both genders rely on lying to some extent. They just do it differently and sometimes for different reasons.
All humans, especially women say they want their partner to
be honest. Is this the truth? Can you keep a relationship up and running if you
are telling the truth all the time?
Imagine that you just have brought your girlfriend at your
home, to spend the night together for the first time. You have made a great
effort to arrange and clean your home and especially the bedroom. You are proud
about this and ask your partner what she believes about your home.
She responds “It is a little old fashioned… and something
smells bad in here”. Ups! Ok.
You two pass through this awkward moment, then you start
kissing each other, but you make a joke about… the size of your penis, and
instead to hear the most used reply: “hey, relax, size really doesn’t matter”,
she tells you that her ex was quite huge.
Ups… Not again.
If she were to say just two little lies everything could be
great, but now…
The truth is, telling a few lies can be one of the best ways
to keep your relationship healthy.
So if you want to keep her happy and keep getting laid,
you’re going to have to learn how to lie – and lie convincingly. The trick is
figuring out what she wants to hear.
1. Never mention your sexual past… especially if it was a
good one. If your girlfriend asks you what it was like or how good your ex was,
you can tell a lie if you have to. Say it wasn’t all that good. Don’t ever
mention her. Even if what you’re saying is uncomplimentary, it will still have
a negative effect. You bringing her up hints that she’s still on your mind.
2. When it comes about how she looks, if you picked her to
be your partner, you have to make her feel that she is a WOMAN. Every woman has
something beautiful, something sexy and attractive, and if you make her know
that you find her attractive she will be more confident, wilder and more
passionate. But when she asks you about something you don’t really like at her
look, never but never tell her your true opinion. Just say that it is OK and
pass over the moment. If you are telling her that you don’t like something at
her, she will feel frustrated and become more inhibited.
3. Everybody knows that women have more sensibility than
men. So pay attention to her sensibility and don’t make bad jokes about other
people (especially her family) or let her know when you are up to take the cat
and throw it out through the window. She will find you insensitive and you will
lose points. Use your common sense and try not to hurt your womans feelings
even if you have to say a little lie from time to time.
Overall, lying is a bad thing to do. But when it comes to
women, you really have no choice.
The little white lies don’t hurt anyone and are only meant
as reassurance every now and then
It’s therefore okay to tell a person what they want to hear.